The Inner World of An Introvert Unveiled Through Solo Travelling
Or How I Like to Say It: Roaming in Solitude
Ah, summer is here! I love summer! While most people are excitedly planning their family holidays or organising group trips with friends, as an introverted single parent to a teenage whirlwind of extroversion, my travel plans often take a different turn. However, I consider myself fortunate because my daughter's out-of-curriculum activities frequently lead her away on camps, granting me the opportunity to embark on my own solo adventures. Join me as share with you the joys and quirks of traveling alone as an introvert, and how it has transformed my relationship with myself.
Getting out there; from fear to excitement
I'll admit, when I first considered traveling alone, a wave of apprehension washed over me. The idea of venturing into unfamiliar territory without the comfort of companionship seemed daunting. However, I took a leap of faith and embarked on my first solo trip a couple of years ago to Tenerife for ten days. From the moment I set foot on that enchanting island, any remnants of fear were replaced with excitement and wonder.
A solid relationship with myself
Traveling alone has given me an incredible opportunity to nurture and strengthen my relationship with myself. As an introvert, I've realised that I don't require constant validation from others. Traveling solo gives me the space to be my own best cheerleader. I can revel in my own accomplishments, navigate unfamiliar territories, and experience the world on my own terms. Additionally, having solid boundaries ensures that I can recharge my introverted batteries whenever needed. No guilt, no explanations—just me, myself and the world.
The magic of introvert-proofing
I understand that crowded places can be overwhelming for introverts, but fear not! However, I’ve crafted myself a personal toolkit to introvert-proof my travels, from the moment I step foot out of my front door. My trusted companions? A pair of noise cancelling headphones, a captivating book, and a lightweight rucksack. Whenever I find myself in a crowded spot, I pop on my headphones, immerse myself in a captivating audiobook and let the world fade into the background. It's my secret weapon for tranquillity amidst chaos.
The power of "me" time
One of the main advantages of traveling alone is the luxury of doing whatever, whenever and however you want. Need some alone time to explore that hidden bookstore or wander aimlessly through cobblestone streets? No problem! I embrace my inner planner and organise my day, itinerary and routes meticulously. But I always leave room for spontaneity—those magical moments of following my whims and encountering unexpected adventures.
Alone, not lonely
There's a difference between being alone and being lonely, and I firmly believe that a solid relationship with oneself eradicates the latter. These solo trips have helped me establish and cultivate a stable bond with myself, fostering self-compassion and inner strength. I no longer fear solitude; I embrace it as a source of rejuvenation and inspiration.
I’ve put together a list of tips and tricks for solo travel introverts that you might find useful:
Choose your destinations wisely: opt for places that align with your interests and offer a peaceful environment.
Engage in solo-friendly activities: Take up hobbies or engage in activities that allow you to enjoy your own company.
Plan ahead: Introverts excel at planning, so use that skill to craft an itinerary that suits your preferences while leaving room for spontaneity.
Find a comfortable sanctuary: Seek out peaceful spots to retreat to when you need to recharge. Parks, gardens, and quiet cafes are introvert havens. You might be surprised how many are doing the exact same thing.
Embrace technology: Use travel apps to navigate unfamiliar territories and carry a good pair of noise-cancelling headphones for your peace of mind. There are apps and websites out there that can help you find quiet cafes, scenic spots, and tranquil corners. You only need to find what suits you best.
Engage in slow travel: Instead of rushing from one landmark to another, take your time to immerse yourself in the local culture and soak up the atmosphere.
Connect with nature: Spend time outdoors, whether it's a hike in the mountains, a stroll on the beach, or simply sitting in a park. Nature is a balm for the introverted soul.
Connect with locals selectively: While striking up conversations with strangers might not be our forte, connecting with locals through activities like local tours or workshops can be a fantastic way to experience the destination in a more intimate and authentic way.
If you've ever been hesitant about traveling alone as an introvert, I encourage you to give it a try. These journeys have become my personal haven, providing an opportunity for self-reflection, growth, and the liberation to embrace my authentic self. With the right mindset, a touch of planning, and the willingness to step out of your comfort zone, solo travel can be a transformative and rejuvenating experience. So go ahead, embark on your own adventure and unlock the hidden treasures within yourself!
Feel free to share your thoughts, stories, and travel experiences—don't be a stranger! Drop me a message and let's celebrate the joy of solo travel as introverts.
Remember, the world is waiting to be explored, and there's no better companion on your journey than yourself.
Bon voyage!